Sleep Dysfunction In Women

Question: My friend is married to a woman his age and has erectile dysfunction. I date women in their 30s and do not...? and we're both 55. Is this a coincidence or is the fact that he has no other option than to sleep with an aging, wrinkly, fat cow the real cause of his erectile dysfunction? Why do I find mantis so funny? Also, I don't think Yahoo is going to delete this question because it allows them to advertise all these products that people are gagging to sell. None are relevant though, they should have ads for liposuction and breast implants in this question.

Answer: Maybe, just maybe, you are a real stud.

Question: Do you think erectile dysfunction in married couples is caused by a fat wife? I see alot of couples where the wife seems to turn into livestock as soon as vows are said. I think I would get ED if my wife looked like a cow. I've attempted to sleep with a big woman and then I stop and think 'wow, I'm looking for her vagina' and back out.

Answer: You're an idiot.

Question: Would Most Men Like Women to be more LadyLike? I am currently reading this book " A Return To Modesty" by Wendy Shalit. I am finding myself very moved by the information in it. In this book she talks about how womens liberation is actually oppressing women much more,and causing all sorts of havoc to be wrought upon us. With freedom to sleep around and dress how we want and emulating men, With feminism the norm we now have increased rape,increased sexism, increased violence against women increased sexual dysfunction, increased anorexia and bulimia,increased divorce, increased abortion, increased STDs, increased psychological problems.. the list goes on and on. In your opinion do you believe that women giving up their modesty has hurt us? And inevitbly destroying romance, marraige, relationships,and mens treatment of women. Men used to live by a code of conduct around women, to be worthy of them. To be gentlemen. Chivalry isnt dead because men woke up one day and decided to be *******, women are training them! It is our fault! By women giving up their modesty and sleeping around and acting vulgar we have caused men to respect us less and to use us more. Men dont act like gentlemen anymore because women dont act like Ladies anymore. If women want chivalry they have the power to change it but it starts with us the women. But that means no more acting a **** and definitely means holding men up to a higher standard. ...And just watch the divorce rate plummet.

Answer: I am tired of woman acting hard like a man, curseing, smokeing, wareing jeans, sneakers and having bodies thats just not in shape, I love a woman who takes time in the morning to put her face on, do her hair and dresses nice and speaks softly without curseing, and who can give her man a back rub without him haveing to hint around to it or ask

Question: Would Men Like Women to be more LadyLike? I am currently reading this book " A Return To Modesty" by Wendy Shalit. I am finding myself very moved by the information in it. In this book she talks about how womens liberation is actually oppressing us more. It is hurting women much more,a nd causing all sorts of havoc to be wrought upon us. With freedom to sleep around and dress how we want and emulating men. With feminism the norm we now have increased rape, increased sexism, increased violence against women increased sexual dysfunction, increased anorexia and bulimia,increased divorce, increased abortion, increased STDs, increased psychological problems.. the list goes on and on. In your opinion do you believe that women giving up their modesty has hurt us? And inevitbly destroying romance, marraige, relationships,and mens treatment of women. Men used to live by a code of conduct around women, to be worthy of them. To be gentlemen. I think with feminism we destroyed chivalry and mens respect for women and their bodies. My comments will probably be looked at as sexist or "oppressing " to women But when i look around at all the problems that abound in our society i can only feel sorry that it has come to this. Modesty protected women,and made men suitable fathers. It actually made women "Powerful" believe it or not. Women i think have less power today over their sexuality than ever. Because they have lost by large the respect for themselves and from the opposite sex.

Answer: I do hold to that code of conduct, and treat all women as ladies even if their behaviour does not warrant it. Once they get past the shock of this, most of the ladies I meet enjoy having their chairs held and their doors opened for them. They appreciate the safety of knowing they shant be mauled at the end of our date, but seen to their door with only a kiss goodnight. I am a gentleman. Being a lady has nothing to do with equality, but is a matter of self-respect and a reverence for her body. It is her own code of conduct which states she is moral and honourable, she holds to a higher standard, she takes pride in herself and demands only the best behaviour from those she dates. I do believe in romance and long courtships, in love before intimacy, and treating a woman as the beautiful and priceless creature she is. Chivalry and modesty are not dead, but I am of a dying breed. So, I fully agree with the author of your book in that the times have changed for the worse in many ways. Feminism has not destroyed this so much as loose morality so prevalent in our society today. It is true that you teach others how to treat you. ~Because sometimes it is rocket science.~

Question: I might have "selective" erectile dysfunction, how do I overcome it? I have no problems at all on getting an erection with my long time girl. Just a brush of her skin would make it rock hard.. But recently, I found myself wanting other women too. I got a chance to sleep with another girl and just when we were about to it, I noticed I wasn't going erect even after foreplay. In my mind, I want to do her but my thing doesn't seem to respond. I must admit, I felt a little anxiety before this with other girl. And the weird thing is, this happened 3 consecutive times with other different girls (no erection). But in between those instances with other girls, I still have normal erection with my girlfriend. Some advised me it might be guilt but in my mind I want to do other girls still. Some say its performance anxiety, but I think I just want to get laid. Anybody know how do I overcome this? Im 25 by the way, normal health.

Answer: anyway year ago my husband suffered very much from Erectile Dysfunction too and he started trying everything you can imagine to stop Erectile Dysfunction. the things that really work is: 1) Increase your intake of L-arginine. Your body uses this amino acid to produce nitric oxide. This substance will allow for the relaxation of smooth muscle surrounding the penis' blood vessels, dilating them and increasing blood flow. This increased blood flow should encourage erections. L-arginine can be found naturally through food such as: poultry, meat, dairy products and fish. It can also be purchased in tablet form as a supplement. However, it should be noted that high doses of L-arginine can result in stomach complaints as it increases the production of gastrin, which is the hormone responsible for producing stomach acid. If you suffer from ulcers it could exacerbate your problems, so you would be wise to steer clear of this treatment option. 2) Ginko is particularly effective in men who are suffering ED as a result of anti-depressants. Like L-arginine, it relaxes smooth muscle around the penis' blood vessels which can increase blood flow. 3) Ensure you are getting enough zinc in your diet by enjoying food such as: oysters, meats, cold-water fish, beans and nuts. Zinc absorption is better in people who have a diet richer in protein than in plants, so make sure you're getting enough meats, poultry, eggs, fish and nuts. Diabetes, digestive disorders and some kidney and liver diseases can cause a siginificant depletion of the mineral zinc which has been shown to lead to erectile dysfunction. 4) Alcohol, drugs (prescription & recreational) and smoking can increase likelihood of suffering from erectile dysfunction. It's best to cut out alcohol, recreational drugs and smoking from your routine to improve your chances of overcoming this problem. If you're concerned about the impact of prescription drugs on your sexual performance, speak to a pharmacist or doctor for advice. 5) Pelvic floor exercises have been shown to assist in treating ED. These exercises strengthen the muscles around the base of the penis. One study of 55 men showed that after 3 months, there was a marked improvement in men who followed these exercises. To do this at home, tighten your pelvic floor muscles as though you're trying to stop yourself from passing gas. You can also try and practicing retracting your penis and lifting your scrotum only using your pelvic floor muscles. 6) also you must use herbal treatment because you can not always live 100% healthy...!!! in that case CaliPlus is really good (probably the best) product that helps against Erectile Dysfunction! CaliPlus contains an effective composition of herbs that triggers the sex glands and increases blood accumulation in the erectile tissues (Corpora Cavernosa and Corpus Spongiosum) and thus produces strong erections. I do not know if any pharmacies carry CaliPlus but I do know that you should purchase it directly from the manufacturer and read more about the product here http://www.caliplus.com/?id=aa0a2e It worked and still works for him! http://www.naturalherbalmedicine.org/ind…

Question: Pubic symphysis dysfunction? plz help? Iam 34+5 wks pregnant. I finished work last friday as i cant carry on working anymore. I have to wear a support belt and to use crutches to help me walk. I am fininding it very hard to sleep of a night as when i try to turn over i wake up in so much pain i am crying with it. I have notice now that ive be getting strong stabbing pains on my left hand side by my groin it does take my breath away. My left leg becomes numb and tingles. Is this normal? Next wk i am going to my hospital for a check up as this baby is still the wrong way! I am wondering if any women out there that have had this psd, what was your labour like and what type of pain medication did you have??

Answer: My heart goes out to you, I had PSD with all four of my children the last one I was practically house bound from about 20 weeks. My left leg also used to tingle and fell funny and cold and weirdly numb, this carried on for a few weeks after labour too. But just to reassure you my labours were all easy (4hrs, 2hrs, 15mins and 4hrs) and the pain soon goes after labour. Good Luck, Just remember to remind each midwife that you suffer as sometimes its not that clear on your notes and if they don't realise it could affect the advise they give you during labour.

Question: husband wont get help with erectile dysfunction? My husband and I have been together for eight years. Ever since we met he has not been able to hold an erection for over two minutes. He literally ejaculates in two minutes! I tolerated it at first because he told me he would get it handled (going to the Dr.) and I thought as he got older maybe he would build his stamina.( He was around 20 when we met. ) But fast forward back to now.....our marriage is all screwed up and Ive begged and pleaded with him for years to go to the Dr. He went once and this Dr. didnt seem to think anything was wrong. Now my husband wont go back. I keep telling him to go see another Dr. because this Dr. that he seen around 4 years ago didnt take him seriously. We argue all the time about him seeing a Dr. he keeps saying he will make an appt. and this morning I asked him would he like me to and he actually snapped on me. Ive told him Ive waited long enough. Its not fair that he ejaculates in 2 mins. and I can never get pleased. Ive remained faithful to him and when I tell him that other women (most of them) would have been cheated on him he sucks his teeth or something as if he doesnt believe me. I feel that his acts are selfish and disrespectful to me. He doesnt even want to talk about it anymore he just says "Well find someone else to sleep with" What type of husband is this? Thats what I ask myself everyday Either HE is sleeping around or some type of undercover gay person. I mean seriously! I understood the excuse when he was younger that he was too embarrassed to see the Dr. but that excuse is old now. Ive tried introducing cock rings and other toys even suggested watching a porn. He shuns everything. When I ordered a cock ring off amazon he thought I was some sort of freak or something. LOL This isnt normal and he pretends it is. Ive gotta do something......and the thing is I dont think he cares so guess its time I stop caring. I actually told him hundreds of times. "It would be a shame for our marriage to end just because you dont want to go to the Dr. and still he has done nothing. I cant go on like this. Ive actually started to hold anomosity towards him I know it sounds mean but I dont like for people to take advantage of my niceness I feel as if Ive been faithful for nothing it means absolutly nothing to him and thats heart breaking to me which causes anger AnswerDude he does NOT get hard again 2 minutes then he is knocked out sleep as if he has really done something ....

Answer: Erectile dysfunction would mean that he was unable to get an erection. Your husband doesn't have a problem getting an erection, or even having an orgasm. His problem is premature ejaculation. He is definitely not a closeted gay guy, or he wouldn't be ejaculating so fast. If he was closeted he would be having a hard time just getting it up, and it would be taking him forever to ejaculate because you just wouldn't be doing it for him. And he'd probably also be losing his erection in the middle of it at times too. All of your answer so far have been the opposite of what will help the problem. He doesn't need sex toys or porn to fix this. If he's ejaculating too soon for you, then the last thing you want is something that would turn him on even more. That would only make it happen even sooner. A doctor probably isn't going to be any help to him either, because premature ejaculation is not a medical problem. There is nothing medically wrong with a man that makes them a premature ejaculator. It is a psychological pattern that begins when a boy first starts to masturbate. The good news is that there are exercises that can be done to train him to last longer. I read about it once in a magazine, but don't remember the details. But you can just Google "premature ejaculation exercises" and there is a bunch of links. These are just the first 2: http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyres… http://www.cureprematureejaculation.org/…

Question: Girls, which of these are most important to you in a guy? Please order them into which is most important to you, most important to least important: (In no particular order) 1. Hygiene 2. Looks - facial; is he good-looking/handsome? 3. Body/fitness - is he slim/athletic? Does he have a six-pack etc.? 4. Personality 5. Intelligence 6. Letting you be friends with other guys/confidence that you won't cheat on him 7. Mental health - does he suffer from depression or another mental health issue that you would need to help him with? 8. Ability to take the relationship at your pace - he doesn't want to go too fast or too slow with the relationship 9. Dependable - is always there for you when something happens 10. Money 11. Genital size 12.Genital function - does he suffer from Erectile Dysfunction etc.? 13. Previous partners - has he slept with many other women/is he a virgin? 14. Sexually Transmitted Infections - does he have them? 15. Relationship history - has he cheated on previous partner(s)? That's all I can think of, thanks for reading this - I look forward to your thoughts.

Answer: WELL I CANT LIST THEM ALL IN ANY ORDER BECAUSE THEY ALL ARE VERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY IMPORTANT AND YOU HAVE DONE A GREAT JOB LISTING THEM CUZ THATS WHAT ALL I NOTICE BUT THE PERSON HAS TO BE CLEAN 1ST AND FOREMOST

Question: Any women who've suffered with SPD... How was labour and giving birth? Hi girls. I'm 35 weeks pregnant now and about 4-5 weeks ago I started suffering with pains in my groin area. I didn't know what this was so when I saw my midwife 2 weeks later, I asked her about it. She told me it was something called Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (SPD). She explained to me what it was and I have also read about it online. I have created coping strategies from what I have read online, like sleeping with my legs together under a pillow, and sitting properly. I still haven't been to physio tho, I have my first appointment tomorrow (I'm not sure whether this will help being so near to the end of pregnancy). I would just like some feedback from women who have been in a similar position, and could offer me some advice as to whether it affects labour and birth. Thank you! xxx

Answer: I had SPD on my last pregnancy and gave birth without any problems (was diagnosed at 32 weeks). I'm now 25 weeks pregnant with number 3 and have been diagnosed again (started at 16 weeks) and have my first physio appointment on Thursday. I'm more worried about everything this time round as it's painful enough now and knowing it's going to get worse scares me. Fingers crossed the physio helps!!! You definitely need to make everyone in the labour room aware of your condition because they'll know they can't put your legs in stirrups etc and will be able to recommend birthing positions that reduce the amount of pressure on your pelvis. Also worth a mention to your midwife at your next appointment so she can assess whether she thinks you'll encounter any problems having a natural birth. Congrats and good luck x x

Question: I've Never Masturbated Before and Am Ticklish During Sex. It's Hard To Stay Erect and Penetrate a Vagina? I'm 22 years old, in college, and I have never ever masturbated in my entire life. I'm a heterosexual man with no dysfunctions and I LOVE women and the idea of sex but as I was growing up masturbating was just something I didn't get into. Never had an interest in it. The thought of it never really felt natural to me and by the time I was old enough to know that almost ever man in the world does it, it just didn't appeal to me. Now that I look back I'm proud to be this old and not have to depend on something such as masturbation and to accomplish such an achievement but at the same time, now I have questions. Since I never masturbated, me and my penis seemed like strangers until I graduated highschool. Never really touched it for no reason or paid much intention to it except when I had to or when it was required. It wasn't until after highschool that I became very sexually active and realized that intercourse for me is an issue now and I'm not sure if its because I've never masturbated or not. I love women, all women and can almost get fully erect just by the sensual touch of them but I have a "funny bone" or spot right on my entire pelvic area that makes me extremely tickolous when women start to touch it. Makes it hard for me to not move and not resist. Week after week I try intercourse but when you're ticklish right there and you're getting all squirmish and laughing the whole time during sex its kind of hard to stay fully erect and penetrate a woman's vagina. Most of the women enjoy it at first because women like to be in control of the sex and the idea of chasing a grown man or a boy around the bed and having that power over him excites them. All the events leading up to it go GREAT as usual and anticipated and the foreplay is absolutely amazing from providing her with oral pleasure to teasing her but as soon as the woman's hands gets close things start to go downhill. I tried to take the upperhand in the intercourse once so her hands wouldn't have to get close to see if maybe that would change the outcome but I still found minor trouble penetrating because even when I'm fully erect my penis does not rise or stand straight or shoot up in the air (which is especially a problem when the woman is on top). It may partially lift up a few centimeters but it basically just fills up with blood and semen like a normal penis should when erect and hangs there heavy as ever like an over-sized banana so my tip gets into this perfectly lubricated vagina but my the rest does not. It starts to bend. The only way for me to release now is by going to the bathroom to pee/urinate every 5 minutes after getting erect or through wet dreams when I'm asleep which wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't a grown man already with beautiful women on speed dial. The only time I ejaculate is in my sleep. No this is not a joke, yes I am %100 serious, and yes I do want some truthful input on the matter. Thank God for internet where you can find answers for anything or at least people with similar problems. Any comments, testomonies, criticisms, or helpful advice? I'm perfectly healthy and fit as far as I know. Have an overly well-sized attachment to work with, get erect when stimulated quite often, not gay, and don't have any religious beliefs about masturbation. I believe its natural. Just not my thing. I've never ejaculated and the few times I've successfully penetrated and been able to finish the job for her sake it's been more like a rape scene then actual sexual intercourse. Doesn't matter if I wear a condom or not, the results are the same regardless.

Answer: You have answered your own question. If you have this hang-up over masturbation, it has progressed into a hang-up over all sex. The ticklishness is just a physiological solution your body uses to solve a psychological problem. Sub-consciously, you don't want to have sex and feeling ticklish is your body's way of finding an excuse not to! You need to overcome this problem and you know what you have to do. Start masturbating and get used to your sexual bodily functions (conquer the unknown). You have never had a conscious orgasm or felt a naturally induced ejaculation. You need to experience these things before moving on to a full sexual situation. I would feel humiliated in your situation when with a woman. I never drove a car, or had any desire to, until I was 22 years old. Then I took my driving test and bought a car. Wow, it was fantastic driving around. I wished I had done it five years earlier and regretted all the fun I had missed out on! You will feel the same when you start masturbating regularly. You will be surprised to find that almost certainly all your tickles will go too and normal sex will follow!