Anorgasmia Male

Question: Male Anorgasmia? How to fix a shy pyschological male Anorgasmia?

Answer: What the hell is that? If it's a psychological problem, then you need a psychological solution....go to a pyschologist for help.

Question: Problem with Male anorgasmia? I am 54 years old, divorced, an have sex occasionally every week or so. Problem is, although I can maintain an erection for more than an hour (thanks to Viagra) I never reach an orgasm. Very frustrating, only my right hand seems to do the trick and that takes long time too ... I have checked with a few doctors but they do not find anything wrong. Some advice?

Answer: Sounds like you need a new "GO TO" fantasy. The old ones aren't turning you on any more. I'm sure there are some still locked away in that brain of yours. Maybe just thinking about me and my girlfriend spending a night together, first in the tub washing each others boobsand rubbing baby oil over our bodies, then on to the bedroom where she will bring me off to five or six orgasms with her tongue. Then its time for the strap on. Yum............. Sindy

Question: What causes anorgasmia in males?

Answer: Anorgasmia can result from many causes including stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, worry, guilt, fear of painful intercourse, fear of pregnancy, the undesirability of a partner, the undesirability of a setting, and the use of alcohol, prescription or illicit drugs.

Question: Fixing Anorgasmia in teens? hello, im an 18 year old male with a normal sex life. Only sex with relationship partners. One concern is that my ability to climax was completely normal until recently. I believe i may have (anorgasmia) , the inability to climax. it could possibly be caused by the anti-depressants according to the internet. But sex after an hour or 2 without climax is nowhere near as fun. Does anyone have experience with this? Are there any ways i can fix it?

Answer: It's almost undoubtedly because of the anti-depressants you're taking. Talk with you doctor about it. I take Wellbutrin. I've never had problems with erections or orgasms. If you're taking Paxil, or one of the other SSRI medications, you have a much greater chance of experiencing erection or orgasm problems.

Question: How can depression effect sexual function? I'm interested in information as to how sexual function can be affected by depression, especially in males. I have read it can harm libido. Can it harm it in other ways as well? If so, what are these ways? I ask because I am a depressed male experiencing not only impotence and low libido but low genital sensitivity and anorgasmia as well. Can depression cause these things, or should I be looking for some other cause? Please provide citation if at all possible. I am not interested in how psychiatric medications might affect these areas, just depression. Thanks

Answer: Well when you are depressed,there is really not a whole lot you care about or are interested in. And sex is not on your priority list of things to do. To pass a day is big enough without the hassle of dealing with sex as well. Your life is on a standstill. Nothing excites you:hence the impotence,low sex drive,low sensitivity etc. So yes depression can cause all of this. I feel sorry for you: Colors.

Question: Do I have secondary Anorgasmia? Hello there I am an 18 year old male and for the past couple months I have been experiencing a problem reaching an orgasm. I have no trouble at all getting an erection or getting sexually excited or nor do I have trouble ejaculating, its just like theres no feeling anymore when I ejaculate, hence no orgasm. Nothing used to feel better to me than having an orgasm, Im sure everyone feels that way. So lately its been upsetting me very much. So Ive narrowed it down to a few things that have been causing it, about 2 months ago I was diagnosed with a panic disorder and a month before that my anxiety was very high and experienced many panic attacks, and I was also going threw what I think was depression.But then I visited my doctor and he prescribed paxil. It was a life saver for me, all my panic attacks were gone as well as my anxiety. I feel great, its been over 6 weeks since coming close to a panic attack. But im starting to wonder maybe this is the reason why I am experienceing Secondary Anorgasmia. But now im starting to think I was experiencing this anorgasmia before I was on the medication, so if its thats the case was it my anxiety/depression causing it? I've looked at many things about this on the internet and it says SSRI's/anti depressants/paxil has given 15-50 percent of users this secondary anorgasmia. Now is this going to go away in time? should I wait it out and stick with the paxil? Or should I go to my doctor to try and get him to switch me to a different anti depressant or tell him whats going on? Its just highly akward and embarassing to talk about. Now ive also heard about getting an urological examination to make sure this problem is just pyschological. But if I have no problem getting an erection or ejaculating, dosent that mean theres nothing wrong, like its just in my head causing this secondary anorgasmia? PLEASE HELP! I am getting very worried im gonna be like this forever. And I also tried not masturbating for about 4 days and that didn't help, I tried going longer but my urges just wouldn't let me, Im still very interested in sex/masturbating but its like I do it and then once I ejactulate theres no feeling and I get very discouraged/upset, and It ruins the rest of the day for me, cause I keep thinking about it.

Answer: You should consult with your doctor. Some anti depressants wreak havoc on the sexual aspect of things. I also think It might be tied in to your anxiety. The mind is a very strong friend or foe. I would definitely ask my doctor. I hear that wellbutrin does not cause that many sexual side effects but it is not for everyone. Again ask your doctor. Try meditating yoga, and visualization exercises. Good luck to you.

Question: I can't orgasm when I'm with a woman? Does anyone know anything I can do to correct this problem? I get reverse premature ejaculation: anorgasmia. I'm a 23 years old male, I'm in elite physical condition (pro athlete), I don't smoke nor drink nor do other drugs. I've had 4 real girlfriends and I've "been" with lots of other women, and while they've a gotten me very hard (aroused) none of them have ever been able to "suck me off." Even after 1 or 2 hour freak sessions of really hard sex, I haven't been able to make myself *** inside a girl (or even pull out and then several moments later then ***). I have no trouble at all orgasming when I'm by myself wacking off, and I've had limited sucess orgasming after I've been wacking off with a girl there (HOT.) I also know for a fact that I am exclusively attracted to women, and I've had great chemistry with most, if not all of the women I've been with. Does anyone have any good ideas about how I can correct this problem, because I could see myself running into difficulty conceiving a child one day, (although its kinda nice that way now.)

Answer: your gay thats the answer turn to men :D

Question: Do I have prostatitis? (I can’t ejaculate normally!)? Hello. I’m a 22 year old male and I have been having noticeable problems now for a few months during and after masturbation. I do not know what is going on down there but something is definitely not working properly. I don’t know whether it’s prostatits, urethritis, some other inflammatory condition, a urinary tract or bladder infection, or if it’s something more serious like cancer (I really hope not). Before I describe the symptoms, I should say that about two years ago I was put on anti-depressants for social anxiety and I took them on and off for a few months. When i was on them, I immediately developed anorgasmia (inability to ejaculate). it would literally take hours for me to ejaculate and there were times when I felt I possibly injured myself in the process, as I was always determined to finish no matter how long it took. Later on I decided to switch over to the natural herb anti-depressant St. John’s Wort, and although at the beginning of taking it everything was back to normal, the anorgasmia slowly crept back, just not as pronounced. The strange thing was that some days I could finish in 3 minutes, and on other days it took an hour or more, especially at night. I have not been on any type of anti-depressant now for awhile, and I could ejaculate in little time like I did when I was a lot younger, but now another problem has developed. I’ve been very stressed out in recent months and I had been masturbating a lot more than normal. There were days when I would literally masturbate three times in the course of one hour. At this point right now, whenever I masturbate, what happens is that the automatic contractions “leading up� to ejaculation are extremely sharp, tight, and painful, as if the muscles down there in the perenium area are getting contracted to the point where it hurts. During ejaculation the contractions are equally sharp, tight, and painful. It’s like there’s some obstruction somewhere and ther muscles that transport semen out of the prostate are working extra hard tio move fluid. After these “initial� symptoms, I feel a general discomfort in my groin area that lasts for a few days and a sensation like my bladder is full, even after urinating. It’s much harder to urinate as well; it doesn’t “flow� smoothly. Also, it feels swollen in the lower left part of my abdomen. The important thing though is that all these symptoms only seem to arise during and then after I masturbate, as if masturbating aggravates the condition. If I don’t masturbate, I don’t get any symptoms and everything feels normal. But ofcourse, my libido still exists and so it is almost like torture because I have the urge to masturbate but I know that if I do it’s going to aggravate the condition and the sympotms are going to reappear. I know I should see a doctor, but what does this problem sound like? Do you think my past experiences with the anti-depressants and anorgasmia influenced my current problem, or is it a problem that’s been directly caused by over-masturbation in recent months? Please help! Thanks

Answer: I;m no doctor, bnut there defintitely seems to be something going on with your prostate. I used to have the same condiditons and my doctor prescribed me medication. since the medicine never worked, I decided to try these health bars from goprostect.com they work great and I would recommend you trying some.

Question: Do I have prostatitis? (I can’t ejaculate normally!)? Hello. I’m a 22 year old male and I have been having noticeable problems now for a few months during and after masturbation. I do not know what is going on down there but something is definitely not working properly. I don’t know whether it’s prostatits, urethritis, some other inflammatory condition, a urinary tract or bladder infection, or if it’s something more serious like cancer (I really hope not). Before I describe the symptoms, I should say that about two years ago I was put on anti-depressants for social anxiety and I took them on and off for a few months. When i was on them, I immediately developed anorgasmia (inability to ejaculate). it would literally take hours for me to ejaculate and there were times when I felt I possibly injured myself in the process, as I was always determined to finish no matter how long it took. Later on I decided to switch over to the natural herb anti-depressant St. John’s Wort, and although at the beginning of taking it everything was back to normal, the anorgasmia slowly crept back, just not as pronounced. The strange thing was that some days I could finish in 3 minutes, and on other days it took an hour or more, especially at night. I have not been on any type of anti-depressant now for awhile, and I could ejaculate in little time like I did when I was a lot younger, but now another problem has developed. I’ve been very stressed out in recent months and I had been masturbating a lot more than normal. There were days when I would literally masturbate three times in the course of one hour. At this point right now, whenever I masturbate, what happens is that the automatic contractions “leading up� to ejaculation are extremely sharp, tight, and painful, as if the muscles down there in the perenium area are getting contracted to the point where it hurts. During ejaculation the contractions are equally sharp, tight, and painful. It’s like there’s some obstruction somewhere and ther muscles that transport semen out of the prostate are working extra hard tio move fluid. After these “initial� symptoms, I feel a general discomfort in my groin area that lasts for a few days and a sensation like my bladder is full, even after urinating. It’s much harder to urinate as well; it doesn’t “flow� smoothly. Also, it feels swollen in the lower left part of my abdomen. The important thing though is that all these symptoms only seem to arise during and then after I masturbate, as if masturbating aggravates the condition. If I don’t masturbate, I don’t get any symptoms and everything feels normal. But ofcourse, my libido still exists and so it is almost like torture because I have the urge to masturbate but I know that if I do it’s going to aggravate the condition and the sympotms are going to reappear. I know I should see a doctor, but what does this problem sound like? Do you think my past experiences with the anti-depressants and anorgasmia influenced my current problem, or is it a problem that’s been directly caused by over-masturbation in recent months? Please help! Thanks

Answer: Self diagnosis is dangerous & often wrong. Your best bet is to see a medical doctor for evaluation. Also, please read the following article to see if any of the items listed apply to you. If they do, then possible lifestyle changes may be in order. What are my options? Definite DON'Ts Alcohol Alcohol kills reproductive cells and decreases sperm viability. It also disrupts the link between the brain and the penis. Excessive use of alcohol inhibits the creation of the male sex hormone, androgen. Smoking Nicotine reduces arterial pressure and as a result, prevents blood circulation to the penis. In addition, toxic substances from smoking are detrimental for sperm maturation. Marijuana Sharply reduces the level of male sexual hormones, disrupts chromosomes and promotes undesired genetic changes. Anabolic Steroids Anabolic steroids bear a close resemblance to testosterone and as a result, the body stops its natural production causing impotence to occur. High Cholesterol Too much cholesterol blocks the vessels providing blood to the penis and thereby reduces the blood flow necessary to maintain an erection. Overweight Being overweight can disrupt your hormone balance and, as a result, the production of hormones necessary for achieving erection can become insufficient. Chemical drugs Studies show that out of two hundred most used medicines; as many as sixteen are likely to cause impotence. Among the most risky are drugs used for the treatment of high blood pressure, depression, insomnia, ulcers, tumors, plus a couple of medications used to combat allergy.

Question: Attention JAKE T? ok mate this is what i diagnose Its a big lengthy What is Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome? Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome (TMS) is the habit some males have of masturbating in a face-down (prone) position. Some TMS practitioners rub their penises against the mattress, pillow, or other bedding, while others thrust into their hand. Some rub against the floor. What's wrong with masturbating in this fashion? Masturbating face-down puts excessive pressure on the penis, and especially on the base of the penis. These sensations are not easily replicated in conventional masturbation or in sexual intercourse. This can make TMS practitioners unable to have normal sexual relations. A survey conducted for this website revealed that males who masturbate conventionally have sex 6.6 times more often than TMS practitioners. he most common problems TMS sufferers have are inorgasmia (also called anorgasmia; it's the inability to have an orgasm during intercourse); or delayed orgasm or delayed orgasm. Many TMS sufferers also have trouble getting erections. It's a common experience among males who are used to masturbating face-down to engage in sexual intercourse for over half an hour, fail to have an orgasm, and then try to reach orgasm in an atypical (and usually unenjoyable) way, such as thrusting the penis against his partner's legs, palm, or bed. Needless to say, the female partners of these men find their behavior unusual and disturbing. These women often wonder if they are to blame for the man's inability to reach orgasm through intercourse. These things are understandable consequences of prone masturbation. Even males who masturbate the conventional way don't get as much stimulation from intercourse as from masturbation. (Because in masturbation one can control precisely the type, force, and location of the stimulation one gets, while in intercourse a lot of that is not under control.) For TMS practitioners, the amount of stimulation in intercourse is a small fraction of what they get masturbating. How did they develop TMS? More than 90 percent of males learn to masturbate through self-discovery. The males who practice TMS unfortunately self-discovered the wrong way. Males who learn to masturbate from other people invariably learn to do it the correct way. (Most males who discover it for themselves also discover the correct way.) What's the correct way? Over 90 percent of males lie on their backs and make a fist around their penises and stroke in an up and down motion. Nearly all TMS practitioners are aware that males usually masturbate this way, but many think that their way is merely a harmless variation, or even that it's better than regular masturbation. All men who masturbate face-down think the way they masturbate is more similar to missionary-style intercourse than conventional masturbation is. Only in the sense that sitting on a park bench is more similar to piloting a boat from a chair than piloting a boat while standing is. For some reason, the amount of pressure the penis gets (and the parts of it that get stimulated) in intercourse are more similar to conventional masturbation than to face-down masturbation. It defies what every TMS practitioner regards as common sense, but those who masturbate the typical way have the fewest problems adjusting to intercourse. How many people suffer from TMS? While definitive data are not readily available, some informal, non-scientific research suggests that as many as 10-15 percent of males masturbate face down as their main method of masturbating, although most scientific estimates are closer to five percent. When was TMS defined as a problem? TMS was first pathologized in a 1998 article in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy by Dr. Lawrence I. Sank of the Cognitive Therapy Center of Greater Washington in Bethesda,

Answer: Does this mean that you've gotten the help you needed or that your obsessed?