Anorgasmia Female

Question: female anorgasmia...? ok. here's the story. me, and 2 other girls are in a three way relationship in which we are all quite comfortable and loving to each other. the problem is that one of the girls has type 1 anorgasmia. (she has never had an orgasm) we believe it may be because of sexual abuse at a young age. Assuming it is not from disease (she's not diabetic, and is too young for most vasclar disease.) how would we help? She enjoys sex with us alot and is not displeased with either of us. what ways are there to help this WITHOUT a doctor or psychiatrist. will lots of caring, love, self esteem boosting etc. help? what else could help?

Answer: read up on PTSD. it is quite common and it can (apparently ) be solved but I would advise that she seeks some form of counselling. Just make sure she knows that it's not her fault, that you're there for her and maybe not have sex for a while. get some toys too that might help! there isnt much on the internet about it, as long as it isnt a physical problem then you just have to wait i think... cant say i know what the solution is....if you find one let me know!!!

Question: Do you believe in the female orgasm? Have you ever heard the myth that many women cannot achieve orgasm? Estimates suggest between 5 - 17% of married women do not achieve orgasm, with around 10% being considered a rough figure. I also notice that primary anorgasmia (never orgasmed) is often mixed up with secondary anorgasmia (rarely orgasmed) and both have a long history of being confused with being 'frigid', or only applying to women. Interestingly, male anorgasmia is more commonly seen as delayed orgasm. But how much could this same definition apply to women? What are your thoughts? :-) http://sexuality.about.com/od/orgasms/a/… http://www.health24.com/sex/Problems/125… http://www.peaceandhealing.com/sexual_he… Axn - you copied that off Mark :-) Btw - those statistics I posted (5 - 17%, 10%) were the 'correct' statistics, not the myth :-)

Answer: I didn't click all the links but something on the first link perturbed me a bit. I think many women who have been diagnosed with orgasmic disorders are misdiagnosed or shouldn't be diagnosed at all. The fact is, while it is entirely possible for a female to have an orgasm, it also takes more work than it would a man. Our primary organ for stimulation is on the outside of our body and unless it is being stimulated by a hand during intercourse you very rarely get any real sensation from it while doing the deed. For a woman it would be more beneficial for it to be placed on the inside but studies show and I believe it would make childbirth that much more difficult. I think there are a mixture of reasons why many women can't achieve and orgasm. The biggest one being their lack of knowledge of the working of their own body. Not knowing how your body works, what feels good to you and doesn't feel good to you and then not being able to effectively communicate this with your partner is always a cause for not reaching that blissful plateau. As far as sexual education, reproduction and health go, that is something we are really behind on here in America(maybe worldwide)

Question: how insluting is this to women? I don't believe a word of it honestly where did they do these, silly and stupid studies, on behalf of men ladies i appoligies ! But is this mislead information or what?! THE OVERWHELMING MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE SEXLESS, FRIGID BEINGS WITH A DEADLY HATRED OF HUMAN SEXUALITY Given the centrality of orgasm in male reproductive functioning, it is impossible to speak of any man as suffering from sexual frigidity. Because frigidity is a problem which is exclusively physical, rather than psychic, in origin, it is necessarily applicable only to women. This is due to the fact that on an anatomical level, women are not physiologically capable of achieving orgasm through intercourse because of the great distance of the clitoris from the vaginal introitus. Furthermore, the clitoris is really a primitive organ that serves no biological function whatsoever; in anatomical structure, it resembles a miniature penis that failed to become fully differentiated sexually during the course of embryological development due to the general absence of those genes responsible for foetal androgen synthesis. The clitoris is a vestigial appendage; it is really nothing more but the evolutionary by-product of male sexual differentiation and the male capacity to produce an orgasmic response, a feature that has evolved over hundreds of thousands of years of human physiological adaptation to the external environment of our hominid ancestors. As a matter of fact, only the human male alone, out of all species within the animal kingdom, possesses a sophisticated apparatus of sexual physiological arousal that is unparalleled in the history of biological evolution. Detailed, meticulous observations derived from extensive anatomical investigations conducted by various scientific researchers throughout the twentieth century have revealed that the penis, foreskin included, contains anywhere between 80, 000 to well over 100, 000 nerve endings, whereas the clitoris contains anywhere between 0 - 8000 nerve endings. To elaborate further, the overwhelming majority of women possess virtually no nerve endings whatsoever within the clitoris and are therefore organically frigid. How else does one explain the fact that over 86% of women are physiologically incapable of achieving orgasm through intercourse or that more than 66% of women are virtually incapable of achieving orgasm through masturbation? The widespread inability to achieve orgasm amongst woman is a reflection of the fact that both sexual frigidity and anorgasmia are exclusively female problems. It should be obvious to even the most limited intellect that the clitoris is a vestigial organ that is completely devoid of any discernible biological function; it is an organ that should be removed surgically by means of clitoridectomy in order to protect both the physical and psychological health of the woman. Even on an historical and clinical level, sexual frigidity, or more technically anorgasmia, has always been associated with female sexual dysfunction where orgasm and sexual pleasure are relatively unimportant in the achievement of maximal female reproductive functioning. On the other hand, there is a considerably lower prevalence of male sexual problems compared to a female sexuality that is frequently plagued by both dysfunctionality and psychopathology; in addition, the root cause of male sexual dysfunction is largely due to psychological factors. Thus, although no man can be clinically spoken of as being anorgasmic, it must be noted that the overwhelming majority of women are essentially frigid beings who are almost completely devoid of sexual passion, or experience virtually no sexual desire whatsoever. According to the most recent statistical computations based on raw data derived from an in-depth analysis of the social organization of human sexuality, 71% of women are incapable of achieving orgasm through intercourse, compared to less than 3% of men who have similar difficulties. Although there is a consensus amongst many scholars that approximately 46% of all women, regardless of chronological age, happen to be completely incapable of experiencing sexual desire or achieving any degree of sexual physiological arousal whatsoever, some scholars have actually estimated the prevalence of female hypoactive sexual desire disorder (lack of sex drive) to be as high as 52.4% amongst naturally menopausal women. Another 66% of women are unconquerably frigid or completely anorgasmic, being physiologically incapable of achieving orgasm through masturbation, compared to less than 1% of men. Even under the most repressive conditions, such as abuse or war, men are still significantly more sexual than women, who often lack sex drives and are generally physiologically incapable of producing any kind of orgasmic response. Male sexual desire is much more difficult to suppress and men have a greater interest in both novelty and variety. From an historical point of view, male sexualit

Answer: Wow, long [: But it's not as insulting as it is complete nonsense. The person writing this must have gotten false info or was being completely biased. I don't believe one word of it, and not every woman is the same anyway! So it wouldn't matter even if it was true, you know? But I'm glad you don't believe in it, you're a good guy. I can tell. :]